Customized video players

I need a custom flv file player that coordinates with my web page and has a button to allow viewers to EASILY grab the video and embed on their myspace, facebook, blog, email or html. It also needs the normal controls (play/pause/etc) and a couple of other buttons that will basically just link to pages on my site. I also need a similar player for wmv files. You can see an example of something LIKE what I'm looking for at [login to view URL] But mine will coordinate with my website and have different buttons. Thanks!