Custom Complete Flash Video Upload Form

I need to have a complete customized video uploader form for my tube site all in flash. I need the flash object to do the following (yes, this is for a porn site) 1) Video Uploader with Progress Bar and Filetype limiter 2) Other form fields below the upload box [form field data including checkboxes, textareas, etc, will be provided via XML file] 3) Force agree to Terms, Privacy Policy, and 2257 Documention Terms 4) Send data to a PHP file when the upload completes. 5) I need this to be able to be used on any site i upload the swf, xml, and php files to. So a config file or instructions on how to change URLs and such will be necessary.